Step 2: Detox

Unburden Your Heart

As your heart opens, all human emotions that still needs your loving attention comes up to be transformed: shame, fear, guilt, anger and loneliness.  My offerings help you to get to know your shame signature and handle such painful moments with greater ease, love and lightness. 

Are you taking care of others at the expense of taking care of yourself? Then let got of excessive guilt and responsibility in my programme Loving without Losing Yourself to start tending to your precious self. If you come across loneliness, fear not as I guide you to transform it into loving connected in my programme Befriending Loneliness.

As you are kinder to yourself, you will become aware of more of your parts. Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy can help you to unburden your parts with compassion and let all of your parts shine brightly. Inquire with me about individual IFS online sessions. 

Shame Detox

In my 6-week Shame Detox Advanced Workshop you can apply your growing self-compassion to gain a sense of ease and flexibility in dealing with this most debilitating human experience. Like a dark veil, shame obscures all parts, memories or emotions judged as undesirable by banishing them into the dark out of conscious sight. Left to suffer in their dark exile, the need of these unseen and unloved parts to belong and be freed grows stronger as do our many inauthentic ways in which we attempt to achieve love and belonging. As soon as we develop the courage to stop and lift the veil and tend with love to what we find beneath, we unburden their heavy load of judgment and fear. We feel lighter and stronger because we have reclaimed parts of ourselves and brought them to light: we are more ourselves. Shame dampens our authentic self and cuts us off from our essential life force and uniqueness.  In the safe space of our group you can learn to handle moments of shame with greater lightness and humour through transformative exercises.

Befriending Loneliness

Befriending Loneliness allows you to transform the pain of disconnection into loving connectedness from the inside out. My book and the 20-part audio course on the subject were published in April 2020 exactly when the world went into enforced isolation and many people realized how much they dreaded being in their own company.  My teachings and practices help with exactly that: facing the shame of loneliness, the fear of vulnerability and surrendering to a containing and loving presence within and around us to finally feel at ease in our own company. Loneliness can also arise when in company. The disconnect often reveals a deeper unfulfilled yearning for genuine connection and the stuck grief of past disappointments. Longing and mourning are precious gateways that help open our hearts wider than ever before, if we are brave enough to let them move and transform us. As we surrender to each layer, we discover a peaceful state of solitude and universal loving connectedness beneath that we carry within us wherever we go.

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